Comments on: Checking Out Girls… http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/ .:: And continue to remind, for surely the reminder profits the believers [51:55] ::. Sun, 15 Nov 2009 08:44:51 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: amyheidi http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/#comment-478 amyheidi Sun, 16 Mar 2008 12:18:20 +0000 http://trueword.wordpress.com/?p=99#comment-478 Assalamualaikum, Jazakallah for the post. The problem of lowering gaze is not just with brothers, but also sisters. In my faculty and programme, there is a ratio of 1 boy to 11 girls. Thus, there is usually no need to lower the gaze as most of the people I see everyday are sisters. However, things are different if I go to the student centre or any other part of the university where the ratio of boys and girls are 1:3, I encounter more boys that way. Things are also different if both brothers and sisters attend an islamic function together. There are times when I can avert my eyes from looking to the right where the brothers are sitting, but there are times when I really couldn't do it, especially if there are good looking brothers around. Assalamualaikum,

Jazakallah for the post.

The problem of lowering gaze is not just with brothers, but also sisters. In my faculty and programme, there is a ratio of 1 boy to 11 girls. Thus, there is usually no need to lower the gaze as most of the people I see everyday are sisters.

However, things are different if I go to the student centre or any other part of the university where the ratio of boys and girls are 1:3, I encounter more boys that way. Things are also different if both brothers and sisters attend an islamic function together.

There are times when I can avert my eyes from looking to the right where the brothers are sitting, but there are times when I really couldn’t do it, especially if there are good looking brothers around.

]]> By: abdalmutakkabir http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/#comment-474 abdalmutakkabir Wed, 05 Mar 2008 15:48:51 +0000 http://trueword.wordpress.com/?p=99#comment-474 Safi - I didn't upload this video. I found it on Youtube so I shared it. Krecca - As Muslims, we do not engage in sexual relations outside of marriage. So, the only option a Muslim has is to lower his/her gaze. Safi – I didn’t upload this video. I found it on Youtube so I shared it.

Krecca – As Muslims, we do not engage in sexual relations outside of marriage. So, the only option a Muslim has is to lower his/her gaze.

]]> By: Safi -- Dua4Me.com http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/#comment-475 Safi -- Dua4Me.com Mon, 03 Mar 2008 02:05:37 +0000 http://trueword.wordpress.com/?p=99#comment-475 Brother, did you upload this video? May Allah Bless you! Brother, did you upload this video?

May Allah Bless you!

]]> By: Ijtema » Blog Archive » Let’s lower our gaze http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/#comment-477 Ijtema » Blog Archive » Let’s lower our gaze Sun, 02 Mar 2008 01:13:54 +0000 http://trueword.wordpress.com/?p=99#comment-477 [...] Brother Abdul-Mutakkabir has uploaded a beneficial video that addresses an important Islamic teaching: lower your gaze. [...] [...] Brother Abdul-Mutakkabir has uploaded a beneficial video that addresses an important Islamic teaching: lower your gaze. [...]

]]> By: krecca http://trueword.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/checking-out-girls/#comment-476 krecca Sat, 01 Mar 2008 06:57:38 +0000 http://trueword.wordpress.com/?p=99#comment-476 you make me think... it's good... I hope every men is just like him ... but as of now,,, i think it's not just true.. there are couples that choose to live in first before marrige.. and they have trheir own reasons,, like they must know if their partner will sutisfy them in love making,,,. maybe this video will appreciate by whom have fear in God but how about those people whose colonized by the modernazation? you make me think… it’s good… I hope every men is just like him … but as of now,,, i think it’s not just true.. there are couples that choose to live in first before marrige.. and they have trheir own reasons,, like they must know if their partner will sutisfy them in love making,,,. maybe this video will appreciate by whom have fear in God but how about those people whose colonized by the modernazation?

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